I don't know what to do anymore, Help?

okay so i got as far as the i cant handle the military part...i'm in the military and my wife has followed me to two different bases now she said the same thing and to be honest if you cant handle it then dont go with it. your ex will probably fall in and out of relationships because that's what happens all the time at that age and the other girl i'd just say she's just making sure your not going to jump in her pats and then leave.